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Day 28: Neo and Vee fight and make up

16 August 2020
Neo and Vee fight in the morning to make up in the evening, all in a day's work in the Big Brother House.
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When we are going through 'ships it is only natural to go through ups and downs. We can see this clearly in the House and of course, we tend to watch a little closer when the clouds darken and the cruise becomes unstable.

Today, we witnessed a tiff between Vee and Neo and as time moves on, we are told Neo's side of the story. He feels that Vee has been unfair towards him particularly when he was sick and needed to eat, he caught flack from her for eating without him. From Vee's side, what we have heard so far is that Neo was disrespectful in telling her to "f%$& off!" in public, she also told Neo in no uncertain terms that if he does that again, she would "call it off." Neo maintained that he tried to keep peace with Vee in multiple ways,  bending over backward for her a lot every day.

Woah. There is a lot happening here, so naturally, Neo went to seek advice from some of the other Housemates.

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First, who tried to break the fight?

The fight took place this morning in the hair salon where Praise asked Neo not to confront Vee in the salon. He worked his way back and forth between the couple, asking that they do not fight here in the salon, at some point telling Vee that in this situation, Neo was merely a salon person there to support. 

Ozo thought Neo should be the bigger man

As soon as the words had been exchanged between the two outside the salon, Neo made his way to the changing rooms where he found Ozo and retold the story. Ozo said that Neo should be the bigger man, after agreeing with him that she was definitely in the wrong. 

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Kiddwaya says the scale is imbalanced

While Neo was outside chatting to Laycon and Kiddwaya, Kiddwaya gave his own advice. Besides saying that Vee was a British girl and that mentality made her a little different, he also said that Vee is so used to Neo treating her so well that when Neo did something small, she wouldn't like it. 

Laycon thought Neo should keep the peace

Laycon also had a few words for Neo and told him that in a relationship, there are two people involved and sacrifices need to be made in order to make sure that the relationship is solid. He also noted that it sounded like there were underlying issues and it could not only be about soup, swearing, and sleeping in Trikytee's bed, and that's what he thought needed to be addressed.

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Nengi wanted to know if there are underlying issues

After listening to Neo for a while, Nengi asked if there were underlying issues because that's how it seemed. Neo avoided the issue and responded that the problem may have to do with him swearing at her earlier on. At this point, Vee called Nengi and that conversation ended there. Nengi made her way to where Vee was to talk to her friend.

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Get the girls involved

Throughout the day, Vee had multiple discussions with many of the girls, who eventually convinced her to respond to Neo's note, she did with their help, leaving the same note with a response for Neo while he slept. 

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Vee's response

Though we know there was an issue with food, it was later revealed that Vee was very upset by the fact that Neo swore at her and proceeded to sleep somewhere other than the bed they have shared for weeks. She thought it was very disrespectful and had he just come to bed like she expected him to, they could have sorted everything out, but Neo rather, made things worse.

Though we did not hear the end of the conversation due to Diary Sessions, the two seemed to make up as when Neo went into his Diary Session, he requested something special for Vee's birthday in the form of a card and some flowers. Really sweet, right? 

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