Mensan and Ivatar’s bond has been a mix of playful energy, mutual teasing, and underlying tension. It started with lighthearted interactions - the two often seen in each other’s space, laughing, joking, and even sharing flirty gestures like undoing Ivatar’s braids, or playfully spanking each other. Ivatar often described Mensan as the funniest person she’s ever met, and their chemistry was undeniable to onlookers.
However, beneath the banter, cracks are beginning to show. And on Wednesday afternoon, Ivatar expressed frustration that Mensan “doesn’t know how to be a gentleman,” – pointing out that while she would make him food, he rarely showed appreciation. She also took issue with him discussing grievances with others, like Danboskid, instead of addressing her directly. For Mensan, certain words Ivatar used, such as “grab,” were hurtful and a source of irritation, prompting tense conversations between them.
Despite these frictions, their friendship remained close, they were often seen together, whether in the kitchen or playing pool, sharing personal tidbits about their lives. Ivatar even revealed she had appeared in several music videos, prompting a dramatic “Oh, I know you!” from Mensan.
But in a twist that has set social media streets ablaze today, their dynamic took a turn when Ivatar decided to set boundaries.
She told Mensan that she wanted them to stop spanking each other, clarifying that they were not in a relationship and she didn’t see them progressing to one. “We are done,” she said plainly, citing discomfort with being sexualised. Mensan accepted with a quiet smile, though the exchange left a brief silence hanging in the air. When Mensan countered that she also jumped on him, Ivatar walked away, repeating her frustration that he doesn’t know how to listen.
What began as a seemingly effortless, cheeky friendship has now shifted into a space of reevaluated boundaries and mutual misunderstanding with both still figuring out whether they can remain as close without crossing lines. Will they reunite for braiding sessions, fun times by the swing, or more flirtations in the future? That remains to be seen. But for now, it would appear that this ship has been put on ice.
All housemates are up for possible eviction this week, with the exception of Head of House Tracy, Most Influential Player Rooboy, and Kuture who has immunity after being saved by the HoH. You have until this Thursday at 22:00 WAT (23:00 CAT) to vote (hyperlink) for your favourite 10/10 housemate. Watch BB Naija season 10 live 24/7, on DStv Channel 198, GOtv Channel 49, and on Showmax. Follow us on X, Instagram, Facebook and TikTok for all the gist. BBNaija season 10 is proudly brought to you by our Gold sponsor, Guinness Nigeria.