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What to do when besties like the same person – DiepCity

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14 February 2022
We never thought we’d see the day the Wrong Turns are divided by a man.
DIEPCITY LERATO NOX BAFANA LOVE TRIANGLE

Nox and Lerato may be friends, but they are incredibly different – they are oil and water brought together by their love for each other and hustling together in life. So how could it be that they could fall for the same man?

Bafana is quite the charmer and is able to hang out and make any lady smile so maybe it is not so much about the ladies but more about the man.

Anyway, if you’re ever caught in a similar situation to Nox and Lerato’s, here is what you can do to make sure you choose broads before boys and keep that we ride together, we die together friendship.

  1. Keep everything transparent

When love is new and sweet, it can be tempting to keep it all privately to yourself, but to avoid any confusion and unwanted sharing in this small world, make sure you tell your besties everything about your new guy.

  1. Organise a meet and greet asap

Don’t wait too long to introduce your new bae or even your sneaky link to your friends. If he is shady, you’ll need a few detectives on your team to help you suss him out. So make sure your friends lay eyes on him, even if it’s just a quick drinks or passing by to pick something up.

  1. Tell your friend everything!

If you do find out that your sneaky link is now your bestie’s new bae or potential bae, tell her! It doesn’t matter now in love your friend may think she is with the perfect new Mr Right, she’ll be more heartbroken when she realizes she has been sharing the love of her life with her bestie.

  1. Talk it over like adults

There really is no need for secrets and lies, if your sneaky link is your bestie phakade, just talk it over and see if you can let go of the sneay link relation so they can enjoy true love.

  1. Cut all contact

If your friend decides to carry on with the relationship, make sure you cut all contact with that sneaky link. You can’t do your girl dirty like that.

Can Nox and Lerato handle things this well seeing as they have already missed step 1 – 3? Stay tuned to #DiepCity every Monday to Friday to find out.