Life comes at you fast especially when you think everything is going as it should in love land. This has been the case for the couples which led them to finally seeking assistance.
For the past few weeks since XO Goals premiered, the four couples on the show have been provided with the necessary help they need in the form of Xperts, both psychologically and spiritually. They have been given tasks to help get to the root of their issues and figuring out how they should love each other.
We have been paying close attention and these should definitely be their love languages.
Sphelele and Tracy – Acts of service
From the jump, Tracy has made it clear that one of their biggest goals is to finally move out of Sphelele’s family home and stand on their own but, that would mean they need to help each other. She has expressed that she has been doing everything for him around the house for years (borderline being his mother) but she has reached her boiling point.
Acts of service being all about doing things for your person should be up there on Sphelele’s priorities in order to show his partner that they are in this together and she doesn’t have to do it all alone.
Itumeleng and Mathapelo - Words of affirmation
The couple that took their love out of the phone to a real life fairy-tale are getting ready to spend the rest of their lives together but there are goals that need to be reached first. Their biggest one is losing weight and being able to go back to the healthy lifestyle that they once had.
Mathapelo is very determined because the weight gain has messed with her self-esteem, and this is where Itumeleng comes in. He has been the best partner in affirming her when it comes to how beautiful she still is and this should be the theme in their love because he needs it just as much.
Tebogo and Nathi – Quality time
They have gone through a terrible time in their relationship but what matters is that they are putting in the work now and working towards healing. One of the biggest things that would help here is spending time together in order to get to a better place.
Tebogo’s biggest worry is how it often feels like they are living in different worlds because they hardly spend time together. Whether it’s catching up on the day or going out on dates, Nathi and Tebogo’s love language should be the quality time that they desperately need.
Simphiwe and Kedi – Words of affirmation
Insecurity from Kedi’s side since they started dating has been one of the things hindering them from moving with no issues, so this is a no brainer. Being given the task of writing their feelings down gave Simphiwe the opportunity to be aware of this.
However, their journey of finding a donor to have a baby and Simphiwe needing that person to be gay has highlighted that she might also have some trust issues and insecurities. Looking at their situation, they need to give each other unexpected recognition and make themselves feel safe in what they have.
We’re so close to the seeing how they reach their final destinations so don’t miss any of it.
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