First dates can be daunting and will have your heart pounding and your mind racing. Everyone wants to put their best foot forward and create the perfect first impression in hopes of finding their happily ever after. We’ve got some tips for you to make it a good first date and make sure that love doesn’t dribble you!
Outfit choice
Make sure you wear something nice, but don’t overdo it. You want to present the best but most realistic version of yourself during the first meet. Simplicity is key, and the saying “less is more” applies here. A simple outfit that matches your personality is the way to go. You also want to be comfortable with what you’re wearing to avoid any awkward wardrobe malfunction moments.
Be friendly
Being friendly and open-minded is key. Ask all the right questions but don’t make it sound like it’s an interrogation session. Listening is just as important. Allow your date to talk and don’t interrupt them.
Smile
There’s that saying that “a smile is a curve that can set a lot of things straight”. If you wear a smile on your face, your date will feel at ease and possibly give you an equal amount of smiles.
To shake or not to shake?
Upon the first meet, one often wonders: do I shake the other person’s hand, or do I give them a hug? This boils down to how the other person approaches it. If they go in for a hug and you are comfortable, go with it. If not, a perfectly simple handshake will do.
Splitting the bill
The first date should be something simple and not too time-consuming or costly. Coffee dates are ideal. You should offer to pay for your share, and if your date insists it’s on them, then simply accept, if you feel comfortable.
Share your location with others
Make sure you meet your date in a public setting like a local coffee shop at the mall. Don’t get picked up by your date. It is safer to get there yourself or get dropped off by a friend or family member. Tell a friend or family member whom you are meeting and where you are. If you feel uncomfortable, you can always leave at your convenience.
Be honest
If you’re not feeling the date and know you won’t want to see them again, be honest. Let them down nicely. Don’t give them false hope. If you are interested, let them know and ask if they’d like to set up another date.
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