You meet the love of your life, you date and end up together. But as time goes by, there seems to be something missing?ย Have you lost the spark in yourย relationship? Are things getting cold? Let's look at some ways that you can ignite that flame once again.
Keep Surprising Each Other
Everyone loves surprises๐คฉ. Think of the beginning of your relationship when you both did things to surprise each other. Well, it doesn'tย have to stop!ย Keep doing it. Look for little ways to surprise each other. Call them to tell them you love them. Send flowers ๐. Show up at their work place unexpectedlyย andย do a lunch date. Write a poemย and recite it to them at bedtime. Keep the surprises coming and the love will keepย coming too.
Make Time For Date Night
Date night doesn'tย end once youย areย officially a couple. You've got to keep the sparks flying when you're together. Go to your favourite restaurant,ย try a new one or simply haveย a dinner date at home. Watch aย romantic movie under the stars โญโญ.ย Leave a note for them saying it's date night.ย Ask them out. Tell them you're crushing on them. Act like you're both falling in love all over again.
Write Love Letters
Remember when your boo was wooing you with silly love notes? Well, we may live in a digital age, but love letters ๐ are still veryย romantic and timeless.ย So write them a love letter, declaring your undying love. Tell them all the things you love about them in the letter. Do this more often. Pin itย on the dresser table, leave it under their pillow, in the shower, or in their car. Love letters say, signed, sealed, delivered, I'm yours.
Reminisceโ
Take a trip down memory lane throughย your journey together. Look at old photos, talk about yourย first date,ย first fight and first kiss๐. Remember why you both choose each other and keep reminding yourselves of that daily. Makeย a date at the very place youย first met and indulgeย in some sweet dรฉjรกย vu. Just keep those sweet memories alive and your love for each otherย will live on too.
Look Good For Your Partner
It's important to love each other, flawsย and all, but it's also niceย toย look good for your love. So dress up ๐๐, do your hair, smell good and surprise your partner when they get home, with the new you. Don't be afraid to try a new look, it's the same you, only with extra spice. They may also wishย to do the same for you. It's a win-win situation๐
Support Your Partner
Love isn'tย all butterflies, goo goo eyesย and hearts. Show your partner you love them by helping them with something that's important to them. This could be a DIY project, help with their studies orย quitting ๐ซ a bad habit.ย Be present in the moment and show them you are a helping hand and shoulder to cry on. Supporting each other is crucial and this brings you both closer๐ซ
Be Intimate
Intimacy is important and vital in a relationship. Get closer and get more intimate โค. Share your desires and deepest thoughts with your partnerย on both a physical and emotional level. Take your intimacy to a new level. Trust your partner and allow yourself to let go. Show your partner that they are wanted and needed and vice versa. The passion is bound to ignite the flameย ๐ฅ
We hope the fire continues burning in your relationship.ย Share your tips with us onย Facebook,ย Twitterย andย Instagramย with #FindingTheOne
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