Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola join Oprah's discussion dating on Oprah's Lifeclass.

Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola debunk some dating myths on Oprah's Lifeclass.

In this time of advanced technology and online dating, it can be hard to figure out what is real when it comes to matters of the heart. 

On Oprah’s Lifeclass Stop Settling and Start Dating Smarter, authors of He's Just Not that Into You Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola sat down with Oprah to try and help single ladies who are looking for real deal romance.


Here are some of the pearls of wisdom that we picked up:

Don't look for someone to complete you, feeling whole all on your own will attract someone who compliments you.

Amiira Ruotola who shared dating advice on Oprah's Lifeclass

 

On a first date, relax and let go but don't spill out to much. Treat it like you're with a friend.

You shouldn't fret about whether he'll like you, rather ask:

Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola who appeared on Oprah's Lifeclass 

 

The most important thing is to go out on actual dates. But hold off on doing the deed on the first date - waiting will make a difference.

Greg Behrendt  debunks dating myths on Oprah's Lifeclass  

 

With regards to attracting the right type of man:

Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola who appeared on Oprah's Lifeclass

 

Some women have types that may evolve with time but you never know where you'll find your true love:

Greg Behrendt  debunks dating myths on Oprah's Lifeclass 

Gain more meaningful insights on Oprah’s Lifeclass, Sundays at 20:55 on TLC Entertainment.